“Mel and the Abbeyfield team were very helpful when I was looking to move here, arranging visits so I had a good feel for living here and making my move go smooth.
The Friends of Abbeyfield put on social events like games evenings and outings for example to the garden centre.”

“I like Abbeyfield being near the centre of Purley, close to Tesco and other shops, bus stop and Purley library. It’s living in a community but with the freedom to continue with activities outside the house if you wish.”

“Abbeyfield supplies the best of all worlds.
The feeling of comforting support and the freedom to spend one’s time as wished are much appreciated, as is the pleasant accommodation. These coupled with the pleasure of mealtimes shared with extremely friendly residents, excellent food expertly prepared by the House Manager, for whom it seems nothing is too much trouble makes Abbeyfield a great place to be!”

“I was made most welcome by Committee members, staff and residents. I also appreciate the friendship of my ‘shadow’ – a wonderful bonus.” 

“We have our own space and are able to do our own thing, which has always pleased me. The Housekeeper plays a big part in this, advises if requested, but never interferes. I enjoy the outings and visits to see my grandchildren. I also look forward to visits from my ‘shadow’, who calls regularly.”

“I received a very friendly welcome when I came to Abbeyfield both for my trial week and now permanently.
Brenda did everything she could to make the move an easy one. – answering questions and explaining anything I didn’t understand.

The other residents were and are very friendly. Everyone seems interested in all that is going on.It is also a great blessing to have so many volunteers interested in helping in many ways.”

Resident – Purley Knoll

“Pre-Abbeyfield Mum didn’t have any social interaction, so her life has been enriched here.” (son)

“She particularly liked being in the spacious garden, being able to potter about and tend the beds.  She has enjoyed the social side of being in Abbeyfield Purley Knoll, especially the opportunities to visit garden centres and Anne Carrington’s home and garden.  She has made good friends with many of the staff and committee members over the years.  I know she hoped to live out her years at Abbeyfield but unfortunately her dementia has meant she needs 24 hour specialist care now.  Adaptations such as arranging carers to help with medication were accommodated which meant she could live at Purley Knoll for longer, which I think she has appreciated.  She has been able to live more independently that she would’ve done for this long by having the support of the staff at Abbeyfield, and this has meant she didn’t need a Care Home until now.  For this the family are very grateful. ” (granddaughter)

“My father has now been a resident of Abbeyfield House in Purley for a few months, and I cannot praise the house and the organisation enough.

It was a difficult decision to move dad into a residence, but it has been a great success all around. The office administration and Brenda (the house manager) all worked very hard to ensure a smooth transition into Abbeyfield for us all.

Dad quickly settled into the house and has found he has his independence back due to the location of the house being so close to the town centre. He can now get to the doctors, shops and his club all by walking, which has been excellent for his health and well-being.

I would happily recommend Abbeyfield to anyone – it really is a home from home, and when it sadly becomes too difficult for an older person to stay alone, it is the absolute best alternative to their being in their own home.

T. Delgrosso (daughter of resident)